Music is as sexy as sex itself, that’s why sexy people listen to sexy music when they’re making love; it’s also why a person’s sexiness can often be observed in how their body moves, or dances. I remember a Punjabi Osho sannyasin who I danced with at an after hours party in Pune, India…who’s energy was so hot, it was like we were on fire together. I think I fell in love with her that one very special night. She was one of the most sexually free women I have ever encountered. It wasn’t even necessary to have sex with her, that’s how extraordinary her energy was. It was an intensely sexual thing just being in her company. Feeling deeply overwhelmed by her beauty, her being, and her irresistible freedom, I eventually went up and asked if I could join her on the totally empty dance floor where she was gracefully flowing about to the joy of the onlookers; this was where we began making love. Her long curly brunette hair moved freely through my fingers, as she welcomed my dancing body, as well as my the touch of my hands, and the moisture of my lips, and cheeks; we sweated, played slowly with each others energy dancing, neither she nor I with a care; her loosely fitting dress, and the very uninhibited nature of her body awaited the inevitable exploration, to feel her. This event was unfolding to the most sensual, incredibly beautiful Indian lounge music imaginable. What an angel she was, and what a gift she gave to me! Never have I known, or even dreamt of, a woman so unbelievably liberated and sexually free, as she. dwp
The difference between love and sex is that genuine love is happy to wait for sex to happen, while genuine sex doesn’t care whether love happens.